Our Journey For Cole: 09/20/07

Thursday, September 20, 2007

Breakfast Included

Thank goodness breakfast is included with our hotel stay, and that it's all Cole can eat!

Cole loves to flirt with practically every woman he sees, and is quite taken with other children. We've had quite a few people introduce themselves to us, because they were drawn in by our little bee charmer of a son!

He really is a good little boy, except when he runs out of food & he's still hungry...then look out! He smiles and laughs most of the day, and is entertained fairly easy. We've been working on walking...his is between Frankenstein & the mummy right now:) And we're learning to communicate the best we all can.

We have received Cole's new birth certificate and passport so far. We're pretty much on our own until next week, and we're hoping to find something to do over the next couple of days, as hotel life is starting to get a little old.

We will take Cole to see an International Doctor first thing Monday morning, and then have an appointment to meet with the US Embassy on Tuesday. We will have a 2nd appointment with the embassy a couple of days later, and that should then complete everything.

Overall, things have been great...our son, the food, the people, etc, but we are of course looking forward to getting home soon....

Internet usage is a little different over here, and not cheap, so I will do my best to update the blog every couple of days, or when I have news. Talk to everyone soon:)

Adoptive Mothers Poem

Being an adoptive mother is not for every woman. She must possess not only the natural mother instinct but an understanding and appreciation of the situation that brought a child into her arms making her a mother.

The adoptive family comes to be by choices made, choices made by the first parents and by the adoptive parents. This bond the adoptive mother has with her child grows over time, like the child did within his first mother's womb. Day by day, touch by touch, with each tear, kiss, and memory made they became a family. Adoptive mothers have that special knack to let love grow.

The adoptive mother knows that she is a mender of wounds, not just of the physical skinned knees with a band-aid and a kiss, but of the heart. She gives love, acceptance, and permission to ask and talk about the day he was born and of his first parents. Adoptive mothers are embracers, not only of the child with many hugs and kisses, but of the child's heritage and history.

She embraces the facts of her child's past with strength for herself and the child. She's not only a memory maker planning family vacations, activities, and birthday parties, but also a memorykeeper. She's a tier of shoelaces and of hearts. She weaves lives together into a tapestry of a new family, with many different brightly, colored threads showcasing their individualities and family origins. Together they create one unit attached to each other.

Adoptive mothers are experts at finding lost objects, but understand and validate the profound, deep loss left by adoption. She allows the tears to fall and grief to be felt, allowing the mourning of the mom not there. She is secure in knowing that she's not a replacement, but a finisher of a race for someone who, for whatever reason, could not run any longer.

This role is not for the weak of spirit, or the easily wounded. Loving a child not born to her but calling him her own, but this is what she does, it is her calling. She is a mother.

Quick Facts

Uzbekistan, in the ancient cradle between the Amu-Darya and Syr-Darya rivers, is the most historically fascinating of the Central Asian republics. Within it are some of the oldest towns in the world, some of the Silk Road's main centres and most of the region's architectural splendours. When To Go The best time to visit is in spring from May until the end of June, and in autumn from September until November. The weather is mild and in April the desert blooms briefly. In autumn it's harvest time, and the markets are full of fresh fruit. If you're interested in trekking the mountains, summer (July and August) is a better time to visit; at all other times the weather is unpredictable and there can be snow in the passes from Christmas to February. You may wish to remain in the mountains to stay cool, as the rest of the country will be sizzling at this time. But remember, whilst the mountains are pleasantly cool in summer, they are freezing in winter.