Our Journey For Cole: 09/26/07

Wednesday, September 26, 2007

Thursday

We finally have an appointment with our embassy today at 3pm, however this doesn't guarantee that they will have Cole's visa ready for us by tomorrow. We are praying that all will go well, and that we'll be able to get out of here on schedule...We should know one way, or the other after our appointment this afternoon. Keep your fingers crossed for us!!!!!

BTW, we just had an on-camera interview with the local news station, because today is National Tourist Day, and the front desk of our hotel phoned us up & asked us if we would be willing to come down to the lobby, and have an interview. Why not! It will air at 7:30pm this evening, but I don't know if we'll be able to get a copy of it. We of course told them we were just here visiting friends, and mentioned nothing about adoption...not something you want to announce on camera ya know?

Okay so it is now Thursday evening, and our interview at the embassy went very well, thankfully! We are to pick up Cole's visa at 4pm tomorrow, which will keep us on our original departure schedule. We had a ton of family & friends working on our behalf contacting congressmen, senators, etc, and it seems it all paid off! A big Thank You to everyone that was helping us:) Can't wait to be back in the good old US.

Departure Date Unknown

We were hoping to get an interview date from the US embassy today, because we've been waiting for one since Monday now, but still nothing. We are stuck waiting by the phone for them to call us with whatever update they have. It is a tad frustrating to say the least, and the last place we expected to have any problems was at our own US embassy!

Adoptive Mothers Poem

Being an adoptive mother is not for every woman. She must possess not only the natural mother instinct but an understanding and appreciation of the situation that brought a child into her arms making her a mother.

The adoptive family comes to be by choices made, choices made by the first parents and by the adoptive parents. This bond the adoptive mother has with her child grows over time, like the child did within his first mother's womb. Day by day, touch by touch, with each tear, kiss, and memory made they became a family. Adoptive mothers have that special knack to let love grow.

The adoptive mother knows that she is a mender of wounds, not just of the physical skinned knees with a band-aid and a kiss, but of the heart. She gives love, acceptance, and permission to ask and talk about the day he was born and of his first parents. Adoptive mothers are embracers, not only of the child with many hugs and kisses, but of the child's heritage and history.

She embraces the facts of her child's past with strength for herself and the child. She's not only a memory maker planning family vacations, activities, and birthday parties, but also a memorykeeper. She's a tier of shoelaces and of hearts. She weaves lives together into a tapestry of a new family, with many different brightly, colored threads showcasing their individualities and family origins. Together they create one unit attached to each other.

Adoptive mothers are experts at finding lost objects, but understand and validate the profound, deep loss left by adoption. She allows the tears to fall and grief to be felt, allowing the mourning of the mom not there. She is secure in knowing that she's not a replacement, but a finisher of a race for someone who, for whatever reason, could not run any longer.

This role is not for the weak of spirit, or the easily wounded. Loving a child not born to her but calling him her own, but this is what she does, it is her calling. She is a mother.

Quick Facts

Uzbekistan, in the ancient cradle between the Amu-Darya and Syr-Darya rivers, is the most historically fascinating of the Central Asian republics. Within it are some of the oldest towns in the world, some of the Silk Road's main centres and most of the region's architectural splendours. When To Go The best time to visit is in spring from May until the end of June, and in autumn from September until November. The weather is mild and in April the desert blooms briefly. In autumn it's harvest time, and the markets are full of fresh fruit. If you're interested in trekking the mountains, summer (July and August) is a better time to visit; at all other times the weather is unpredictable and there can be snow in the passes from Christmas to February. You may wish to remain in the mountains to stay cool, as the rest of the country will be sizzling at this time. But remember, whilst the mountains are pleasantly cool in summer, they are freezing in winter.