Our Journey For Cole: Saturday Nov 10th

Sunday, November 11, 2007

Saturday Nov 10th - Jackson's B-day Party

We took Cole to a birthday party yesterday at a place called Frozen Ropes Baseball Park. It was Jackson's 7Th B-day, and Cole was the youngest one in attendance, but he very much enjoyed watching all the kids play various baseball games. And then he got to play with a wiffle ball towards the end of the party, which he had a blast doing (See Video Clip Below).

After the party we headed over to Jackson's house to visit with his mom & dad, and let the kids play. Jackson's sisters, Anna Carol & Katie, thought Cole was their very own real life play doll! They made him drink from his water bottle & do pretty much whatever they wanted him to do. He was in absolute heaven, believe me!

3 comments:

mel@livvyloowho said...: That video warms my heart. He is so happy Julia! And he has quite an arm on him already. Has he used that talent on any breakables yet? Those days are fun!; November 11, 2007 at 8:56 AM
Mommy Cat said...: Cole seems to be progressing really well with you, he's walking a lot better and looks a lot happier than he did in Uz. I'm sure playing with other children is a real treat for him because it looked like he didn't really get to do that before you adopted him. Congrats on on your son - he looks like such a cute, happy & well adjusted little boy! Can't wait to meet him in person :-); November 11, 2007 at 12:39 PM
Francie said...: I am going to go out and buy Cole a baseball uniform. Our little guy is going to pitch for the big leagues--I just know it! We look forward to meeting him and seeing you, Marc and Bella at Christmas.♥♥♥; November 12, 2007 at 9:30 AM

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Adoptive Mothers Poem

Being an adoptive mother is not for every woman. She must possess not only the natural mother instinct but an understanding and appreciation of the situation that brought a child into her arms making her a mother.

The adoptive family comes to be by choices made, choices made by the first parents and by the adoptive parents. This bond the adoptive mother has with her child grows over time, like the child did within his first mother's womb. Day by day, touch by touch, with each tear, kiss, and memory made they became a family. Adoptive mothers have that special knack to let love grow.

The adoptive mother knows that she is a mender of wounds, not just of the physical skinned knees with a band-aid and a kiss, but of the heart. She gives love, acceptance, and permission to ask and talk about the day he was born and of his first parents. Adoptive mothers are embracers, not only of the child with many hugs and kisses, but of the child's heritage and history.

She embraces the facts of her child's past with strength for herself and the child. She's not only a memory maker planning family vacations, activities, and birthday parties, but also a memorykeeper. She's a tier of shoelaces and of hearts. She weaves lives together into a tapestry of a new family, with many different brightly, colored threads showcasing their individualities and family origins. Together they create one unit attached to each other.

Adoptive mothers are experts at finding lost objects, but understand and validate the profound, deep loss left by adoption. She allows the tears to fall and grief to be felt, allowing the mourning of the mom not there. She is secure in knowing that she's not a replacement, but a finisher of a race for someone who, for whatever reason, could not run any longer.

This role is not for the weak of spirit, or the easily wounded. Loving a child not born to her but calling him her own, but this is what she does, it is her calling. She is a mother.

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